December 8, 2013

Marriage is for Others

"Marriage isn’t for you.
You don’t marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, your marriage isn’t for yourself, you’re marrying for a family. Not just for the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them?
Marriage isn’t for you.
It’s not about you. Marriage is about the person you married.

November 6, 2013

Recruitment Process with Bentoel Group

Selamat malam buat dunia menulis. Karena istirahat singkat tadi sore, saya terjaga maximal malam ini. Mari kita menulis dan berbagi cerita dalam waktu, kisah, dan bahasa.

Waktu   : Beberapa jam setelah seminar hasil skripsi, September 23-25th 2013.
Bahasa  : Bahasa Indonesia (mungkin).
Kisah    : Belajar bersama Bentoel.

Telepon berdering berkali-kali and I missed it for 3-4 times, ternyata itu interview singkat in English bersama HRD Bentoel Group. Ketika interview selesai, undangan tahap seleksi berikutnya muncul. Senang? Bukan.
Bingung? Jelas.
Kenapa? Bentoel mengundangku ke Malang tanggal 24 September buat seleksi berikutnya. Masalahnya, seminar hasil tanggal 23, dan Bentoel mengharapkan kedatanganku yaitu tanggal 23 pagi. Kenapa pagi? Karena mereka mengakomodasi perjalanan dengan kereta, yang berarti harus berangkat Minggu malam dari Yogya, sedangkan saya terjadwal untuk seminar hasil pada Senin pagi. Bingung? Jelas.
Lepas kesempatan? Tidak mau.
Tunda seminar? Tidak bisa.

Akhirnya, saya mengorbankan uang jajan beli tiket pesawat ke Surabaya. Paginya seminar hasil di Yogya, sorenya terbang ke Surabaya, malamnya tiba di Malang. Waktu yang harus dibayar dan berguna. Kenapa? Karena saya tidak menyesal dan mendapat pembelajaran yang berharga, bahwa hargailah waktu semaksimal mungkin dan 24 jam sehari itu sangat cukup. Bertemu dengan PTT candidates, aku tidak merasa kita saingan tetapi teman seperjuangan. Cerita, canda, tawa, dan film horor itu yg mendekatkan kita. Sidiq, Pertanian-UNS; Onya, Teknologi Pertanian-UGM; Una, Teknik-UGM; Fedri, Teknik-UGM, dan aku. Kita adalah kandidat.

October 8, 2013

Forgive and Forget

Something bad happens, and you realize that maybe this act was a sign that your relationship was already kind of over; maybe you just sadly needed something concrete like cheating to come to the realization. However, that definitely doesn’t justify cheating, and it doesn’t make what happened okay. With that mindset, you can forgive the bastard because I’m sure he’s feeling awfully guilty and has tried ever so hard to get you back through chocolate, flowers, and other tokens of love that come in edible or aesthetically pleasing arrangements.

However, you’ll realize that it’s probably best to just forgive him and let him move on, and hopefully you can do the same. However, it’s going to be tough to ever forget the feeling of betrayal, and there will be a lasting effect, maybe subtle hesitations in future relationships, too. “Sorry new boyfriend, I’m broken. Blame my cheating ex and fix me.”

September 17, 2013

The Problem is in Smoker Behavior

I don't hate cigarettes or neither like it. If you want to smoke, please smoke like a man.

Niatnya, seluruh tulisan dalam blog ini akan ditulis dengan bahasa inggris, tetapi sasaran postingan kali ini adalah WNI, jadi sebaiknya saya menulis dengan Bahasa Indonesia

Setelah 6 jam nongkrong bersama perokok aktif, menurut saya yang bermasalah itu perilaku perokok bukan rokok. Saya sangat menghargai perokok dan tidak ada opini negatif tentang seseorang yang merokok. It's human nature. Namun, semuanya akan berubah ketika perokok tidak dapat menghargai "bukan perokok" disekitarnya. Masalah berada pada perilaku si perokok.

August 6, 2013

What Happened in July, Stayed in July

Mungkin terdengar tidak dewasa, tapi yah sudahlah, kali ini saya tidak ingin menjadi dewasa *berusaha senyum lebar* 

Saya telah berusaha menyemangati, ini juga telah akhir bulan, cukup sampai disini saja, yah? *senyum lebar, tapi hati teriris-iris*.

Block kamu sementara, biar saya tidak berusaha menguntit kamu, apalagi melihat kamu beredar di timeline *Ya, saya tahu saya terlihat sangat tidak dewasa, tcih*

Tapi, segalau-galaunya sama kamu, saya lebih galau tunggu kabar dari Dosen Pembimbing *just saying the truth*

August 4, 2013

The Godfather : Favourite Quotes

I spent my time just to watch movies for Eid Mubarok Holiday. One of my favourite is The Godfather. It tooks 6 hours to complete all the series. And here some quotes that I loved.



"never let anyone know what you're thinking."

"I have a sentimental weakness for my children, and I spoil them. They talk when they should listen."

"with the money they earn, they can buy more police and political power."

"A man in my position can't afford to be made to look ridiculous!"

"Because a man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man." (The Godfather)


the one who enjoyed movie a lot
-me-

August 1, 2013

Fast Furious : Regret and Love It

Saya menyesal maximal tidak menonton fast furious 6 di bioskop -_-



Euphoria nonton fast furious, jatuh cinta berkali-kali sama suara kekarnya Dom dan Hobbs, mata birunya Brian, mulut besar Rome, easygoing-nya Tej, suara kalemnya Han, dan body sexy rambo si Gisele. Pokoknya masih menyesal tidak menonton di bioskop.

July 31, 2013

Bromo, East Java (July 2013)

Got a free trip is gladden, moreover is the complete trip. I don’t know how to say beside a ton of thank you.

Finally, I made the trip to Bromo. Bromo trip was planned like 3 times and always failed. Who adventurer doesn’t know Bromo? Bromo is one of must destination for backpacker. Sunrise, Sea of Sand, Mountain, Savannah (Teletubbies Hill), and low temperature which rarely in Indonesia. Who doesn’t interest? Me, as a beginner backpacker had the chance go to Bromo with free. I don’t need to think anything except enjoy the trip. Thank you Syngenta who arranged leisure trip to Bromo for Syngenta Connection participants.

July 29, 2013

to Hate and to Unlove, is Different Things

Originally post by @ikanatassa in her twitter

"When relationship ends, to hate and to unlove is totally two different things. Hating is easy. To unlove takes the courage of the heart to let go. And the willingness of the head to not forget but diminish the meaning of what you remember.

Forgetting is bullshit. You can’t forget. It’s physically and mentally impossible. Unless you suddenly got amnesia. To unlove you need to remember, not forget. Remember when and where it felt so right, and when and where it went wrong.And remember sometimes 1 wrong can beat 1000 rights. Sometimes 1 wrong is all it takes."

Me, Chili and Alcohol

I found my old posting in multiply. Me, Chili, and Alcohol. It is random like the writer >.<

Chili and Alcohol don't have the correlation to each other, but, if we talk about Manadonese, they have a beautiful correlation with the Manadonese. Why? Because the Manadonese are chili and alcohol maniac. Keep in your mind, MANIAC

I am Manadonese who look like Chinese but don't have Chinese blood, and I'm not proud if people recognize me as Chinese. I just Manadonese, I am Indonesian. (FYI, Manadonese really proud if people recognize them as Chinese. I don't know why) I am Manadonese who doesn't love chili but love alcohol. (I hope my dad doesn't know about this) 

Build a Good Communication with God

"Membangun Kehidupan Doa Yang Sehat." 

Kehidupan doa yang sehat. Bila ditanya pada orang Kristen, berapa kali anda berdoa setiap hari? Jawabannya macam-macam. Contoh : 2x, bangun tidur dan sebelum tidur; 3x, setiap mau makan nasi; sekali seminggu, tiap masuk gereja atau berdoa karena pengharapan sama diri sendiri telah hilang, dan masih ingat bila punya Tuhan.

Doa adalah komunikasi dengan Tuhan. Berkomunikasi itu tidak dibatasi dengan waktu atau ruang. Jadi, kita berkomunikasi tiap saat. Kenapa kita bisa berkomunikasi tiap saat? Karena, Kristen menggambarkan hubungan Tuhan dan manusia seperti Bapa dan anak. Kapanpun seorang anak mencari bapaknya, bapaknya selalu ada buat dirinya.

Bagaimana kita bisa berkomunikasi yg baik dengan Tuhan? Berkomunikasi dengan Tuhan itu, kita harus benar dan beriman. Biasanya orang Kristen itu berdoa dengan hawa nafsu, pokoknya doa wajib dijawab sesuai dengan permintaan bukan yang lain bukan untuk memuliakan nama Tuhan. Padahal, doa itu adalah kemuliaan Tuhan yang terjadi di dunia.

Makanya berdoalah dengan benar dan beriman. Kenapa harus benar? Karena, dengan benar maka doa kita dijawab dengan benar. Misalnya, Seorang berdoa minta mobil karena tetangga"nya udah punya mobil, tapi dia aja belum bisa menyetir atau ada mahasiswi berdoa pengen wisuda Agustus, tapi mengerjakan skripsinya saja tidak pernah, malah kabur kesana-kemari nikmatin hidup. Ada yang benar disitu? Tidak. Adanya keinginan pribadi sia-sia.

Berdoa suka ragu-ragu. Biasanya, doa diakhiri dengan kalimat, "... dalam nama Tuhan Yesus, Amin." Amin itu titik, pasti, atau sungguh. Orang Kristen itu, Amin-nya itu adalah koma, *masih bertanya bakal terjadi gak yah, oh please.* Setelah berdoa, bukan saja kita diam dan voila, keinginan itu udah didepan mata. Kita harus bekerja dan percaya pada Tuhan. Dalam bekerja, sertakan Tuhan dalam kehidupan kita. Tuhan itu hanya sejauh doa, jadi berdoalah setiap saat, kapan, dan dimana saja.

Renungan hari ini berasal dari khotbah Pdt. Fendi Susanto GKJ-Gondokusuman di GKI Gejayan.

July 21, 2013

Hard to Understand Them

My emotion is not stabilized, because the thing called FEEL.
If we talking about feel, identically with MEN.
So, our topic is MEN.

I think (as a woman), it's hard to understand men.
If I were a man, maybe it's hard to understand of women.
So, let's try to understand each other.


Why is hard to understand about men?
Because they are weird person who always uses brain and confuses to using their heart.
Why is hard to understand of women?
Because they are weird person who always more using their heart than brain.


I am the one of weird person, who don't know where to stand.
I think it's hard to understand men, but I'm not the woman who uses her heart more than the brain.


Regards
-me-
(who think she is alien)

Fasting Break and Movie Date with KKN Pangsan 2012

Pacific Rim, a movie that KKN UGM Unit 30 (Pangsan) 2012  were choosen to watch together. The storyline was so so and cinematography was ok. Seriously, it's not worth it to watch in cinema. But, it was worth it because I watched with Pangsan Family. At least, as 90 generations, the movie is cool, my imagination back to Power Rangers and Ultraman things.

July 15, 2013

The Independent Thinker

According to ipersonic.com, I'm The Independent Thinker. Check it for fun. ^_^

Independent Thinkers like you are analytical and witty persons. You are self-confident and do not let yourself get worked up by conflicts and criticism. You are very much aware of your own strengths and have no doubts about your abilities.


July 13, 2013

Syngenta Connection 2013 Member Team

I'm still in euphoria of Syngenta Connection 2013, I'd give introduction to some of the people that Syngenta brought at Probolinggo and some of the people who are helping with the project. The introduction based on my opinion, so it is subjective. Don't pay attention to grammar and spelling, because I've tried so hard to write this blog in English. (killing me softly)

It was a great pleasure working alongside with the participants, crews, and farmers. It is crazy to think that only 2 weeks ago, we were strangers and gathered for such a connection program for training, planning, teamwork, farmers meeting, field trip, and water pump project. But 2 weeks later, when we were all going our separate ways, it's hard to say goodbye. 

March 31, 2013

Should I Text Him

The story begun when I like a crazy person has a feeling to my mentor.
I doubt to text him or not.
I doubt to call him or not.
I doubt my feeling towards him or I doubt his feelings to me.
I doubt everything.
but, I can't handle to have a little communication with him. 

Jadi, kayak orang bego megang hape buat sms atau bbm. Kadang" kepo-in contact bb~nya atau facebooknya, tapi ternyata dia bukan tipe orang sosial media. Bisa dihitung berapa kali dia muncul di recent updates bbm, itupun status bola bukan status aneh orang" pada umumnya.

Curhat banyak sama si Gabby, eh, di hadiah-in sebuah flow-chart yang lumayan membantu. Kalo, kalian bingun mo text-ing duluan ke incaran, gebetan, pacar, atau mantan. Cobain nih flow-chart, bisa membantu merefleksikan perasaan kamu gimana, malu-maluin gak kalo texting duluan? I hope it can help you, like it helped me.
Regards,

sheena_GR

March 24, 2013

What Oprah had to say about MEN

I found this article on facebook. My friend was sharing this and I like to sharing with my blog~family. It was an article from Oprah. Do you know who is Oprah, right? And, this is what Oprah had to say about MEN. Feel free to read ^^

What Oprah had to say about us MEN. I have to say I agree. 

"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

March 23, 2013

The Last (Wong Fu Production)

A simple question, “How many have you loved?"
Is your answer, one and only? Or is it several, all of whom have shaped your life?


Panik ~ Parno (Angkutan Umum)

Menunggu download-an selesai, saya mau berkicau sesuai yang telah dispoiler tadi siang.

"Parno di daerah sendiri tapi solo travelling di Jawa"

Ceritanya, saya menggunakan angkutan umum yang tidak memiliki izin resmi jalur Manado-Tomohon. Kenapa saya menggunakan angkutan umum tersebut?
Karena lebih cepat dan nyaman dibandingkan angkutan umum resmi yang herannya masih lulus dari Dinas Perhubungan, menurut saya angkutan umum resmi perlu peremajaan armada.  Saya memilih menggunakan angkutan tidak resmi tersebut untuk kembali ke Manado dengan tidak tahu segala macam cerita underground. Saya masih santai, nyaman, dan "aman".

Ketika naik, ibu-ibu dsiamping mulai bercerita tentang cerita underground angkutan umum tidak resmi tersebut. Cerita underground-nya menyeramkan, seperti kasus pencurian penumpang, kasus pemerkosaan penumpang, dan sopir menyetir ugal-ugalan. *kampret* (orang lokal kelamaan di luar, jadinya tidak update berita.) 

March 22, 2013

Movie List 2013

Movie List 2013
Movies should watch in theatres.
      • March: G.I Joe Retaliation
      • May: 3-Iron Man 3, 17-Star Trek Into Darkness, 24-Fast Furious 6
      • June: 14-Man Of Steel
      • July: The Lone Ranger, 26-The Wolverine
      • Nov: 28: Thor: The Dark World
      • December: The Hobbit: The Desolation of Smaug.

Welcome Back, Blogger


Selamat Malam, dunia blog!

Akhirnya, saya kembali menggunakan blogspot. 
Ketika zaman menulis diary terlalu old-school, saya mengenal dengan dunia blog.
Dunia dimana, saya bisa bercerita tentang keseharian atau drama pada dunia maya.
Zaman pulpen dan diary tergantikan dengan komputer atau laptop.
Ya, coretan kita berkembang dari pena menjadi ketikan.

Dulu, saya menggunakan blogspot.com dengan tulisan penuh drama yang tidak terlewatkan. Jadi, dramanya benar-benar terjadi. Hingga waktu kapan, blog tersebut dibaca oleh orang rumah dengan segala drama ABG yang terjadi. A quick answer was delete the blog and I moved to multiply.com. Segala postingan disensor, diupdate, dan dijaga benar-benar di multiply.com.

Saya menikmati nge-blog di multiply. Tercatat sejak 2009, saya menjadi pelanggan setia di multiply.com hingga Maret 2013. Sejak 2013, multiply.com international menghapus multiply.com dan segala blog-blog didalamnya. Goodbye my old drama, goodbye opinion, goodbye wish list, and goodbye to romance story.

Multiply hilang, saya kembali ke blogspot, ya saya kembali ke blogspot.
cheers,
-me-
 
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